Excuses, Excuses…

Remember the expression: “Excuses are like A – holes, everybody’s got one” After doing this work with countless men for almost 20 years, believe me when I tell you that I have heard it all. I have heard so many excuses from other men as to why they were late or why they could not keep their word that I can actually finish their excuse before they can. How about that? It’s not because I have any type of clairavonence, its because I really have heard it all. So much so that what’s new for me is when new men immediately own up to their shit and give me a “reason” why and not an excuse.

Ah, there it is! Listen closely… Is it an excuse or is it a reason? The next time you are about to explain to someone why you could not keep your word. Which way are you choosing? An excuse is typically rehearsed, it comes out defensive with bullet proof armor and is hiding something. While a reason gets to the core of the matter quickly, leaves you defenseless and vulnerable & exposes you for who you really are. Sounds scary right?

Why would you ever want to do that, leave yourself defenseless & vulnerable? Especially when you have been building that custom made suit of armor your whole life to protect you. I’ll tell you why… Cause it will set your ass free! It gets you to the truth quicker than liquor 😊 Nothing to rehearse. Nothing to hide. Imagine that! Now that’s freedom.

Are you tired of making up excuses to other people and yourself ? Would you like to know the reasons you do so?? Do you want to live life with more freedom??? Contact us anytime.

One Life, One Shot. Make it Count!

                J. R. Ferullo

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